A passive-aggressive bus passenger, eureka, Facebook friends, and predictably irrational…

A definite passive-aggressive bus passenger play this morning. Things like this always fascinate me about people—what they could possibly be thinking and what in their lives has led to such a behavior pattern. So, at one of the stops at which both the Wolfline (NCSU’s bus line) and the CAT (the city’s bus line) stop, … Read more

Bus musings, three work affirmations, a create news blurb, and a fun night of dancing…

Work affirmation: All state employees go through a 6-month probation period when they’re hired—”just in case things don’t work out.” This e-mail exchange took place on 02/05/09 between the personnel rep (Marilou) and my manager (Jude): Jude, John’s probation will be up on 3/15/09—if you have no objection, he will go permanent on that date. Marilou … Read more

Homo Haggard, $stimator, lunch with a friend, walk with a friend, grilling out, and dancing…

Why is it that some people can only “see” homosexuality for what it is when it happens to them or someone they love? Pastor Ted Haggard, who was exiled from his Colorado church in 2006 in a gay sex scandal, said this week that the incident has altered his views on religion and the culture … Read more

A cute koala, a famous twitterer, a waving signal, Abe, working affirmations, & free pool…

In the category of total cuteness, I got an e-mail from my friend Kevin (av8rdude) with this little note in it from his manager, who lives in Australia: A little Koala which just walked on to our neighbours back veranda looking for a bit of heat relief.  Filled a bucket for it and this is … Read more

NCSU GLBT Speakers Bureau Training, a lost teachable moment, and some free pool…

I was up at about 8:30, as we got a decent night’s sleep. I knew it was Superbowl Sunday, and both Robert and I knew that the Pittsburgh Steelers were playing in it. Neither of us, however, knew who the other team was that was in it. I googled it, and I said incredulously, “The … Read more

My essence in three words: Documents His Life

At our previous (and first) Salon meeting, we talked about a “personal motto” that can be summed up in three words. All of the others have by now put forth theirs: “Not The Holdup” (Anna), “Mulling It Over” (Etta), “I Meant Well” (Brad), “Are You Kidding?” (Kim) and “Trying My Best” (Sarah). I have finally settled on one that really … Read more

Go or no?, icicles**2, your pimp name, chow mien, and dancing…

I was pointed to an article about changing careers by someone’s tweet today, and this was an interesting point made by a reader commenting on the advice of the career advisor who wrote the article: When colleagues get restless and ask me the if they should stay or go, I always ask the question, “Are you … Read more

No badge, yes or no questions, a diploma frame, and a TON of fun at a salon…

I went through my car yet one more time, this time with a flashlight in the daylight, to look for my badge after Kevin (av8rdude) tweeted that he’s certain he saw it in there at one point during his visit. No luck. Favorite tweet of the day (01/08/09): RobertFischer Note to Everyone Else: When I … Read more