“I’m running Symantec antivirus! How can my computer be infected?” When virus definitions stop being updated, your computer becomes susceptible to infection even though your antivirus software keeps running. Unknowingly, you become at risk for any new viruses that might break out. On June 22, 2009, Symantec virus definitions will cease updating. Don’t be lulled … Read more

Kathryn’s wedding, Age of Arousal @ Manbites Dog, and “lights out night” at Flex…

Robert arrived at about 12:30, and we left the house at about 1:40 for Kathryn and Mark’s 2:00 wedding at Forest Hills Baptist Church over at Dixie Trail and Clark. We wound through an amazing maze inside the church to find “the little chapel in the back.” On the way in, we met two of … Read more

My annual intimacy with a woman, your marriage might be next, some errands, and one for the team…

I had my annual physical this morning, which I’ve been dreading for several months now. I got the usual cadre of annual physical checks starting with lab work, which I’d fasted for 12 hours in preparation for, and as always, I asked that an HIV test be included. The phlebotomist seemed like she was “in training”—which is … Read more

Reading; sleeping; fasting; and dollars, but no cents…

I am proceeding nicely through Anna Karenina and finding it surprisingly accessible, which may have something to do with the fact that the translators, Richard Pevear and Larissa Volokhonsky, of the version I’m reading won the Pen/Book-of-the-Month Club Translation Prize for their work. 60 pages down, 757 to go. Who’s counting? The ongoing State budget … Read more

Buscapdes, some meetings (and some not), meeting a neighbor, and dancing…

Wednesday’s buscapade: There was a lady on the bus this morning of whom I’ve spoken before, but not enough to name. The most notable thing about her is that she’s one of those people who speaks very loudly, which being the ubiquitous bus attribute that it is, doesn’t exactly single her out to you, I’m … Read more

Buscapades, a full day of work, and an excruciating grocery trip…

This morning I did something I think I’ve only done once before—I caught the 7:15 bus. Today’s observations: Upon boarding, thoughts at first glance for an open seat: “This is the service crowd.” I remember thinking that the last time I rode an earlier bus. Folks in various types of uniforms: fast food workers, grounds … Read more

A pastiche, Ellen’s “common cement” address, Myra’s wedding, a cookout, and a night out…

I thought up this pastiche this morning after seeing the video below. “If a woman loses pace with her companions, perhaps it is because she hears a different drummer. Let her step to the music in which she hears, however measured, or far away.” ~Henrietta Davida Thorette~ For some reason this reminds me of Annie … Read more

An early morning plan change, an unfruitful runaround, and an abandoned read…

This morning’s plan:        Get up at 4:15.   ✔              Leave for the airport with Casey at 4:30.   ✔         Meet Robert back at my place.   ✔         Go to breakfast at the Farmers’ Market Restaurant when it opened at 6:00.   ✖  What really happened:        Get up at 4:15. … Read more