Doing it right the 1st time, putting the Y in YMCA, office welcome back, bus drama, and dancing…

I think this, from one of today’s obituaries, is just precious: “Martha Hebbert Wilson recently celebrated her 99th birthday by blowing out all the candles in one breath. She believed in doing things right the first time.” This description of such a simple act is just packed with the sense of Martha. With a semicolon … Read more

A restless night, a fat ass, ENG 583 level-setting, and almost finishing Owen Meany…

Last night I fell asleep at 10:00PM, woke up at 12:30AM, tossed and turned until 1:15, got up and read until 3:30, reset my alarm from 6AM to 8AM, fell back asleep, and woke up at 7:30AM this morning. Annoying. I have a friend who on occasion has asked me, “Do these pants make my … Read more

A straight ally, orientation prep, dinner@Olive Garden w/Joe, a stool, a nap, and a show…

Arguably, Jon Stewart is America’s Best “Straight Ally” to the gay community. Robert and I slept in this morning—as well we should have after last night. I spent a couple of hours at Helios this afternoon, most of which time I spent creating my presentation to be given tomorrow night as the incoming president of … Read more

5 Wishes, virtual pastors, breakfast@Helios, and a flea market junket (emphasis on the junk)…

In a recent post, I alluded to the importance of having your last wishes documented. I forgot to mention a most wonderful organization and place to get a document that will help you do this in the most comprehensive and expeditious manner. The “gist” of the document is outlined below. (It’s been described as The … Read more

Writing affirmations, pre-school activity, and the heavy door that still guards the closet…

Even though I wasn’t out very late last night, I gloriously slept in this morning, my alarm waking me up at 10:00. I received two “writing affirmations” via e-mail today. Writing affirmations are particularly powerful for me, not only because they affirm what I’m passionate about, but because they often totally surprise me. You just … Read more

Geography snafus, two jumps, a well-attended night of dancing, and an incredible family tale…

From a Slate.com article, Ads We Hate: Over the past few weeks, my girlfriend has been looking into international cell phone plans. At the Verizon Wireless Web site, she had an online chat with a sales representative. I feel compelled to share this verbatim transcript: A Verizon Wireless online pre-sales specialist has joined the chat. … Read more